Male/Female Advantage to Aging

I think that it is a male advantage. Why you ask? Well, if you are single again via the death of a spouse, divorce or by choice, the guys have it all over most "seasoned" women. Take me for instance; educated, good cook, self-sufficient, nice personality...oops...that was the give-away...nice personality...well I do have a nice personality but am not a beauty...My male counterparts...with similar accoutraments...have no problems with the ladies. Various age ladies too. Even if I had the opportunity to be a "cougar", I would not choose a much younger man for many reasons and don't want a much older man either...I suppose I could take out a huge loan and visit a good plastic surgeon but don't want to do that either. I heard something on TV recently about dates in the dark; maybe that's the way to go....